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4.Identify Your Unique Purpose

Now that your mind is free of guilt and burden caused by pains and unforgiveness, you are on the full-scale journey to recovery.How do you identify your unique set? You can do the following

Create A Purpose Board

Go visual with this and let your mind go wild but don’t set too much agenda. Look for pictures, drawings or images that inspire you, that make you go crazy- wedding pictures, babies, nature, magical fantastic creatures or machine? Cut, paste and Clip to your board- watch and see the unique story begin. If the picture of young girls hawking makes you feel bad, you are likely going to advocate for the girls’ education.

You can learn a lot about your soul’s desires by gazing at your purpose board. You can also visit http://bettyvision.com/home to accomplish this process

Put Your Hobby To Use

You know how to cook, sing or dance? Record a minute video and post on your timeline.The likes and comments will go along way with your discovery

Take Note Of  Your Social Media Intrigues

Whatever fascinates you on social media forms basis of your temperament and defines your personality.

Read Good Books

Find books related to your chosen interest to enhance your frontier of knowledge.

Find A Friend

Ask someone you trust to support you in your journey of self-discovery, tell them how they can help and also listen to their suggestions in helping you create the life of your dream

Dare The Devil

Dream, take a step and never worry about mistakes. You will learn and unlearn as you journey on the path of discovery. Every move and mistake will provide opportunity through the learning curve.

Trust God All The Way

You can’t achieve nothing without God and He is definitely interested in you and your dreams to make it big. It costs Him nothing to make you the wonder of the world.Just trust Him at every level of the journey.

Celebrate

At the achievement of any milestone, celebrate you.

On a final note, get the full lyrics of I believe I can fly by R. Kelly and sing to the last note with rapt attention. Then, start your comment on this post with #IbelieveIcan . You can also read the Path to Self Recovery (1)

 

 

 

 

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Path To Self Recovery (1)

Life is NEVER a bed of roses. Sometimes, you feel good and just a few moment, life becomes tiring.Everyone experiences problem at a different phase even the rich also cry.

You feel broken, lonely, jilted, betrayed, unfulfilled or you can’t fathom the next step to take. You are blank, on autopilot, depressed and feel exhausted at the moment as well on the verge to call it quit or commit suicide.

It is normal to be tired when in a race, all you have to do right now is take a break for reinforcement!!!! In the course of your break, engage in the following ;

1. Self – Reflection

Look in the mirror and see your reflection- Your true self and determine if you like you, you see.If not, affirmatively promise you to take you back to the real you. Until you make an affirmative decision about your self, nothing will surface.Take time to address the man/woman in the mirror.

For instance,  Joel, you were very brilliant, what happened to you? You know I need you right now to break new grounds and I need your brilliance. From Accra to Ankara, Warsaw to Washington, the kings are requesting your presence”.So brace up and let’s make this happen”.

2. Deep Thought

Sit on a bare floor with your two legs folded across each other and close your eyes. At this state, do not let your mind wander. Concentrate on the problem and think how deep you have been hurt.You are allowed to cry like a baby!!!! Identify your mistakes and what led you to this state.You may have to use the 5Whys  to fathom the root cause.If you identify the problem and the root cause, you are heading somewhere.You are free to blame anyone including self.

3. Forgiveness

Go back to the mirror and talk to self about your discovery in 2 above.Tell self-everything like you are talking to a friend you have seen for a very long time. After all the jists, mention names of everyone who you assumed contributed to the woe and say it loud and clear—- Osho, I forgive you and I will never hold you responsible for ….mention the problems.Do this with all sincerity.
“Forgiveness is not always easy. At times, it feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness” – Marianne Williamson. You can also read the  Path To Self Recovery 2

 

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